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How Often Should Kids Practice When Learning an Instrument?

How Often Should Kids Practice When Learning an Instrument?

Learning a musical instrument is a journey that offers a multitude of benefits for children. It enhances cognitive development, fosters creativity, and builds discipline. However, one common question that arises for parents and educators alike is, "How often should kids practice when learning an instrument?" The answer lies in striking a harmonious balance between structured practice and allowing room for enjoyment. In this guide, we'll explore the key factors to consider when determining the frequency of instrument practice for kids.

Quality Over Quantity: Structured Practice is Key When Learning an Instrument

When it comes to mastering any skill, including playing a musical instrument, quality trumps quantity. It's essential to emphasize the value of structured practice sessions over extended hours of mindless repetition. Encourage your child to set specific goals for each practice session. These goals could range from perfecting a particular scale to mastering a challenging musical passage.

Aim for shorter, focused practice sessions that range from 15 to 30 minutes, especially for beginners. As your child's skills progress, gradually increase the practice duration while maintaining the focus on quality. Avoid overwhelming them with long practice marathons, as this can lead to burnout and frustration.

A great starting point when a child begins learning an instrument is to practice 15 minutes, at least four times per week. You can adjust this based on their age and level of interest. For kids who are four or five you can bring it down to 10 minutes a day, but don’t have them do much less than that. Older kids can go up to 20 or 30 minutes a day. Some kids will want to practice as much as an hour or more, which can be great. But, watch for burnout and make sure that one day of practice for an hour doesn’t take the place of four days of practice for 15 minutes each day. They both equal one hour of practice, but 15 minutes per day is much better.

Consistency Is Key: Establish a Practice Routine to Help When Your Child Begins Learning an Instrument

Consistency is the cornerstone of skill development. Help your child establish a regular practice routine by setting aside dedicated time slots each day, or at least 4 times per week. Consistency not only aids in skill retention but also helps build discipline and time management skills.

Consider incorporating practice into your child's daily schedule, such as right after school or before bedtime. By making practice a routine, it becomes a natural part of their day, rather than an additional chore.

At first they may love practicing their instrument, this is because it’s new and fun and they will likely build skills quickly. But, after playing for a little while the excitement wears off and kids don’t want to do it as much. This is where the routine comes in. If practicing becomes part of their routine, they are much more likely to stick with it when things become more difficult.

Concentration is Vital: Focus is the Magic Ingredient

Deep focus is the key to many things including learning music. Focused practice, where kids aren’t distracted for long periods of time, is they key to making the most of their practice time.

It’s important to create a space in their home where they can practice without being disturbed. It’s also important to make sure no one in the home disrupts your child during their practice time. It’s best not to ask them questions, even simple ones like what they might want for dinner. It’s also best that there are distractions around like TV’s, loud siblings or things of that nature. Fifteen to thirty minutes of focused practice four time per week can help your child keep improving on their instrument.

Listen to Your Child: Assessing Interest and Enthusiasm

While focused practice is essential, it's equally crucial to gauge your child's interest and enthusiasm. Pay attention to their feedback and emotions surrounding practice sessions. If your child is consistently not wanting to practice or showing signs of resistance, it may be time to reassess the approach, but not learning music. It’s common for kids to want to stop doing something when it gets challenging, but this is the MOST important time for learning music, or anything for that matter.

We’ve all heard the saying “when the going gets tough, the tough get going.” Well, this is true for learning music. We have to push through the challenges. If things get discouraging for your children, it’s okay to pull back a little. But the most important thing is to keep going. Try different approach to their practice routine. Offer them different rewards, shorten sessions a little bit, change the time of day they practice, sit with them, focus on the things they do well, let them jam along with their favorite music or try something else.

I’m a parent too and I don’t like forcing my children to do things. But, they can put up quite a fight on some things that I won’t compromise on, like healthy food. After consistently giving them healthy meals, they’ve learned to love healthier food choices and know not to ask for sugary cereal for breakfast anymore. But, being consistent with them was the key.

Additionally, my 10-year-old son has been learning music for three year and wanted to stop this year. My wife and I encouraged him to keep playing by giving him lots of encouragement and explaining how great it will be when he’s older. He managed to stick with it and made the advanced band at his school this year. This group is normally reserved for kids in the 6th grade and above, he’s one of just two 5th graders in the group.

Engaging in open conversations with your child about their musical journey really helps. Understand their likes and dislikes, and be flexible in adjusting the practice routine to align with their interests. This approach helps maintain a positive attitude toward learning and prevents music from becoming a source of stress.

Setting Realistic Goals: Balancing Challenge and Progress

Setting achievable goals is paramount to sustaining motivation. Guide your child in setting short-term and long-term goals that challenge them while remaining attainable. Celebrate small victories along the way to boost their confidence and sense of accomplishment. Help to make learning music as fun as possible for you kids.

Incorporating Play and Creativity: Making Music Enjoyable

While structured practice is essential, it's equally important to let your child explore the instrument through playful and creative sessions. Encourage them to experiment with different sounds, improvise melodies, and compose their music. I also highly encourage kids to just play along with their favorite music.

They don’t have to know how to play the song, it about having fun and jamming. This helps their listening skills too. All of these things not only add an element of fun they also nurture kids’ musical creativity.

Seek Professional Guidance: The Role of Music Programs and Teachers

Music teachers can play a vital role in a child's musical journey. Enrolling your child in lessons with a qualified instructor or reputable music program can provide structure, guidance, and a proper learning path.

Both private lessons and online programs can be great. Either way, your child will be asked to practice on their own at home.

If you’re looking for a music program for your kids be sure to check out My Music Workshop, our learning program featuring over 700 piano, drum, ukulele, singing and other music lessons. We offer 7-day totally free trials to make sure you and your kids love it.

Overcoming Challenges: Nurturing Patience and Perseverance

Learning an instrument is a process that involves peaks and plateaus. Teach your child the value of patience and perseverance, emphasizing that progress may not always be linear. Encourage them to embrace challenges and view mistakes as opportunities for growth. These are lessons that reach far beyond learning an instrument but can be applied to so many other areas of life. Learning to play an instrument can be a great source of learning for these important life skills.

Remind your child that even accomplished musicians faced difficulties in their journey. Share stories of famous musicians who overcame obstacles, illustrating that challenges are a natural part of the path to mastery.


In the realm of learning a musical instrument, the frequency of practice is a delicate balance between structured sessions and enjoyable exploration. Prioritize quality over quantity, establish a consistent practice routine, and actively listen to your child's preferences. Set realistic goals, infuse creativity into practice, and find a good teacher or program for your child to learn from.

Remember, the journey of mastering an instrument is not solely about reaching a destination but rather about nurturing a lifelong love for music, and learning life skill through music. By finding the perfect harmony between practice and play, you're empowering your child to embrace the joy of music while developing essential life skills along the way.

Once again, be sure to check out My Music Workshop to get your child learning music the right way.

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